Dr. Victoria Reuveni

My journey learning about human sexuality mixed with a lifetime of being told to shrink and make myself smaller gave me a couple options, listen to those messages, constantly hate myself and be failing, or live as fully as I could in my body as is. It wasn’t as straightforward of a choice, but with time, amazing teachers, lots of practice and self-compassion, I choose embodiment. I choose it as often as I can.


Dr. Victoria Reuveni, DHS, CSB, ACSI, is a Los Angeles-based sexological bodyworker, sex educator, and coach working with individuals, couples, and groups to facilitate erotic embodiment and self-acceptance through mindfulness, breath work, and touch. She blogs about sex, kink, gender, and body image and reviews sex toys.

Victoria is a board member and educator with the Center for Positive Sexuality, speaking on panels to university students and professionals about kink/BDSM, nonmonogamy, and sex work.

She has facilitated over fifty Orgasmic Yoga circles, including several multi-day series since 2013.

Pronouns and identities:

  • she/her/hers
  • Queer fat femme


  • Self-pleasure Practice/OYoga
  • Cultivating Positive Body Image
  • Plus-Size Bodies
  • Expanding Erotic Menus
  • Facilitating consistent in-person OYoga circles since November 2015
  • BA in Psychology with a Minor in Human Sexuality
  • Doctorate in Human Sexuality (DHS)
  • Certified Sexological Bodyworker (CSB)

“I like to look at pleasure as a vast buffet with a variety of options. When we expand our erotic menus we have more to choose from. We can opt for our tried and true, like comfort food, and we can explore and incorporate other cuisines, or types of pleasure into our erotic exploration.”

Dr. Victoria Reuveni